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你學校/大學里的頂尖學生今天都在做什么?(一)
2019-07-08 翻譯熊 5621 0 0  

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Manali Pandey, Gazetted Officer at MPPSC (2017-present)
AnsweredJun 26
Originally Answered: Whathappened to the topper of your school/college/university? What is he/she doingnow?
There was this girl in my college veryquiet but happy. She surely was hated by the guys of her class for being soarrogant . Which i assume was not arrogance but her being uncomfortable in aclass of CIVIL engineering with 55 boys all around , and because she was froman all girls school she coouldnt find her self comfortable with this drasticchange .
This girl mostly looked really confidentexcept where somebody tried to befriend her. Sometimes i had seen her sit aloneand figure out how to pass time as even though people would approach her , shewas bad at small talk.
During the 4 years of B tech i had seenher grow in academics from a class topper to a university gold medalist . Shesecured the highest in history of the Engineering University of Madhya Pradeshfor scoring 93.8 % which was only considering the theory not practicals . Thechancellor of MP awarded her the gold medal . Our entire college at the time ofresults knew her role number and were logging in to see her marks and theywould come searching for her to ask how had she managed to do it . As it was asmall town of jabalpur and it was a private institute there could have been noway that anyone could have guided her to the top.

Manali Pandey, MPPSC公報主任(2017-至今)
我的大學里有個女孩安靜而又快樂。她被她班上的男生討厭,肯定是因為她太傲慢了。我想這并不是她的自大,而是她在土木工程專業的班級里感到不自在,班上有55個男生,而且因為她來自女校,所以她無法適應這種劇烈的變化。
這個女孩大多數時候看起來非常自信,除了有人想和她交朋友。有時我看到她一個人坐著,想辦法打發時間,盡管人們會接近她,但她不善于閑聊。
在理工大學的四年里,我見證了她從班級第一名成長為大學金牌得主。她獲得了中央邦工程大學歷史上最高的分數。下議院議長授予她金牌。結果出來的時候,我們整個學院都知道她的編號,都來看她的分數,他們會來找她,問她是怎么做到的。因為這里是賈巴爾普爾的一個小鎮,而且是一所私立學院,因此沒有人可以指導她。



I know her . She is a simple girl. She loves small towners, no show offpeople. She made really good friends with two such people who had accepted herwith her success . This girl would get 2 extra books from library (toppers got2 extra books issued ) apart from 4 , these 2 extra books she would give to her2 friends every single time .
She then joined made easy after b tech . Nothing notable happened for 2years in her career . She surely experienced the lowest as a few of her friendswere placed in some good companies through NICMAR . One of her best friendseven got a job as junior engineer in the municipal corporation . She didn'tland anywhere.
The story continues to the time 2015 an year after graduation , she got toknow of her brothers OCD … which was quite severe and that very time there wasan exam MPPSC for the post of Sub Divisional Officer in the state. She felt helpless, only because of parents support was she able to appear in the exam .
She cleared both the pre and mains . Before mains her brother triedcommitting suicide , failed . She ran to Bengaluru to be with him . She wantedto go back to her coaching to prepare for UPSC as she was good and fresh withtopics because of her recent preparation for MPPSC . She gave upthat idea andrather chose to be with her brother and family at this mental health hospitalcalled NIMHANS bengaluru .

我認識她。她是一個單純的女孩。她喜歡小城的人,從不炫耀。她和兩個這樣的人交了很好的朋友,他們因為她的成功而接納了她。除了四本書以外,這個女孩會從圖書館得到額外的兩本書(頂尖學生會得到額外的兩本書),這兩本書她每次都會給她的兩個朋友。
之后,在她的職業生涯中,沒有什么值得注意的事情發生。她的一些朋友通過NICMAR進入了一些不錯的公司,她的經歷毫無疑問是最少的。她最好的朋友之一甚至在市政公司找到了一份初級工程師的工作。她哪兒都沒被聘用。
故事一直延續到2015年,也就是她畢業的那一年,她知道了她的弟弟得了強迫癥,非常嚴重,就在那個時候,她參加了一個MPPSC考試,考的是州的副區長。她感到很無助,因為只有在父母的支持下,她才能參加考試。
…………
她放棄了這個想法,而是選擇和她的兄弟和家人一起住在一家叫做NIMHANS bengaluru的精神康復醫院。

Fast forward to an year. MPPSC interview results came in March 2017 andshe was selected as SDO RES under the Ministry Of Rural Development .
Fast forward to now 2019 . Its been 2 years of services in the departmentand she has gained trust of the commissioner , visits Delhi often for all govtmeetings, represents the state in Interstate exchange programs .
April 2018 after losing a long fight with OCD her brother leaves the world. While She was away with her work travelling .
Its been an year to his death she still goes to work with a smile ,without showing how the death has changed her completely, takes best care ofher parents and has made bold choices to not marry any man for money or a manwith power just for ego .
Well i know when somebody has that attitude to work hard they will lead afairly beautiful life . Hard work , Sincerity is an Attitude .
Yes that girl is me.

快進一年。MPPSC訪談結果于2017年3月公布,她被選為農村發展部的SDO RES。
快進到2019年。她在這個部門已經工作了2年,她贏得了專員的信任,經常去德里參加所有的政府會議,代表國家參加州際交流項目。
2018年4月,在與強迫癥長期斗爭失敗后,她的弟弟離開了這個世界,那時她正外出工作出差。
弟弟去世后的一年她仍然帶著微笑上班,完全沒有表明死亡改變了她, 她很照顧自己的父母,并做出了大膽的選擇,不嫁給任何為了錢的男人,也不嫁給因自負而擁有權力的男人。
我知道當一個人有這種努力工作的態度時,他們都會過上相當美好的生活。努力工作,真誠是一種態度。
是的,那個女孩就是我。

What really matters to me after seeing success and failures in career ,death of a loved one is that , the process to success largely requiressacrifices at every step of the way . Everybody in one way is a warrior . Weall have a story to tell . Embrace yourself , pat on your shoulder that you aregoing on with life and havent stopped.
This is not self praise it is a reminder to myself of all my struggles andme still alive , little broken , yet facing everyday with a smile .
This is my family . Would sacrifice anything for them . Only if i couldget my brother back.
After tating it all at 26- fame, power , failure , being at a mentalhealth hospital , process of mental health treatment in india ( which sucks )and sudden death of the most loved one . I am breathing still .
thanks for reading.
Edit 1 - i want to share a page from my brother’s register which he wrotewhen he was ill . His mind couldnt figure out writing , in pure O there isperfection for everything..its really painful but one part of the brain canprocess that the other part is not letting me do things normally .
this is what will keep me going.
malay’s sister

在經歷了事業上的成功和失敗,親人的去世后,對我來說真正重要的是,通往成功的過程在很大程度上需要在每一步都做出犧牲。每個人在某種程度上都是戰士。我們都有故事要講。擁抱你自己,拍拍你的肩膀,你的生活還在繼續,沒有停止。
這不是自我表揚,而是提醒自己所有的掙扎,提醒自己還活著,有點破碎,但每天都要面帶微笑。


 
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